What does it mean to be available? Is it about whether one can make it to a meeting, gathering, or something similar? To a degree, yes. However, this is only a slice of the pie or a piece of the puzzle! Being available is not merely about whether someone is […]
When I was a child, I observed marriages where controlling behavior was dominant. In them, I did not see love. It all led me to wonder whether there were two types of marriages: marriages of love and marriages of control. My parents were loving partners – they discussed everything and […]
Where is my wife?! Where is my wife?! My dad asked as several nurses ran into his room screaming, “She was right here. Where did she go?” Suddenly, one of them saw her in the hallway and said, “He is asking for you. Please come fast!” Panicked, my mom rushed […]
Last fall, I had a perplexing experience. For some time, I felt like Alice in Wonderland, floating in the air, as my wildest dreams came true. Then in the flash of an eye, I plunged headfirst into a dark reality. It seemed it had all been a dream. I was […]
A piece for Valentine’s Day Must love be returned to be worth the effort? It seems many believe it must. Therefore, we have an aversion to the term unrequited love. Unrequited love is love that is one-sided or unreciprocated, and many have a negative reaction to the idea. Perhaps because […]








